Archive for the ‘Theories’ Category

Why Should a Woman Date You?

Posted: 21st May 2010 by Mr. Orange in Theories

Johnny Wolf brought up a good question on his blog. He asked, “Why would a woman want to sleep with you?” It’s a simple question that I’m sure most men have trouble answering. It’s probably something many men have never thought about in the first place.

Indicators of Interest or Common Courtesy?

Posted: 20th May 2010 by Mr. Orange in Theories
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Indicators of interest, or IOIs, are any signals women display, consciously or not, that show she’s interested in you or what you have to say. Most IOIs are pretty straightforward, but many can go unnoticed or misread. It’s obvious a woman is interested in you if she gives you her number, hugs you, goes out [...]

I read a post on Lifestyle Dating Blog about having an abundance mentality and thought I could expand on the subject. An abundance mentality, in terms of PUA, means you wholeheartedly believe there are plenty of women out there that deserve your time and energy.

Overcoming One-Itis by Future from Love Systems

Posted: 22nd April 2010 by Mr. Orange in Theories
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In the pickup artist community, one-itis has negative connotations.  It’s when a guy settles for a girl because he thinks she’s the one. It goes against everything the PUA community tries to teach. I’ve seen it first hand with friends. I have a friend that is 100% sure he’s found the women of his dreams [...]

Dealing with Approach Anxiety

Posted: 20th April 2010 by Mr. Orange in Theories
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The naturals don’t know what approach anxiety means. They can approach any attractive woman without thinking twice or breaking a sweat. It’s like telling Lebron James to dunk when he’s all alone on a fast break, completely meaningless. Natural pick up artists have done it all their lives. They can talk their way out of [...]

Direct Vs. Indirect Game Approaches

Posted: 29th March 2010 by Mr. Orange in Theories
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There are varying definitions of direct and indirect game in the pickup artist community. For me, direct and indirect approaches are as different as night and day.