Every year I make a list of goals I want to accomplish by the end of the year. I had a great 2010 so I thought I’d make a list targeting some PUA related goals. This list is going up on my wall where I can it every day. This isn’t some list I’m going to forget about in 2 months. I’m going to drill this list into my head until every single one is achieved. I’m not going to settle for an ordinary lifestyle and you shouldn’t either. So here’s what I’m aiming to do in 2011.
- Pack on some muscle – I’m not overweight but I’m lacking in the muscle department. I’ve already started the P90X program and planning to hit the gym more often.
- Improve my day game – I’ve missed some great opportunities to meet women outside of the bars/clubs. Approaching a woman without a drink in my hand is intimidating but it’s something I desperately need to improve.
- Stop using canned openers – Canned openers are great for beginners but I’ve been doing this for more than a year now. It’s time to take off the training wheels.
So here’s to the best year of our lives. Happy new year everyone. Now go get some!
Let me know what your 2011 PUA goals are in the comment section.
Wow that is a great idea! My goals for this year are going to be:
- Number close at least 10 girls
- Kiss close in a club/bar/lounge
- Open at least 20 girls in Walmart to practice my day game.
- Loose 50 lbs. because no hot chick likes a fat boy.
That’s awesome MrAtticus. I’m glad my post inspired you. Have a happy new year.
I really like your site, do you have a list of goals you had to do when you first started? Like approach x girls or start just talking to people to build up confidence, etc?
Thanks man. When I first started I pushed myself to just smile to passing women. These days a friend and I challenge ourselves to talk to women when we go out. We’ll keep score and rub it in each others faces. These mental scoreboards motivate me to step out of my comfort zone. If you’re doing this by yourself, I would suggest to start off slow. Smile at a few women, then say hi and eventually start a conversation. Good luck and thanks again.
Hey guys, I’m keen on joining this, are we going to meet up anytime soon and do workshops?