Johnny Wolf brought up a good question on his blog. He asked, “Why would a woman want to sleep with you?” It’s a simple question that I’m sure most men have trouble answering. It’s probably something many men have never thought about in the first place.
So why should you ask yourself this question?
In order to date or sleep with women, you have to think like a businessman. In business, it’s all about the customer. Customers won’t purchase a product or service unless it adds value to their lives. It’s the same for both men and women in relationships. A woman won’t go out with a guy unless she benefits from it. A woman could be looking for excitement, adventure, stability, romance or humor, but I guarantee she’s looking for something. Women, and men, are looking for someone that’s going to add value to their lives.
As a PUA you have to discover those characteristics she values and accentuate them in your personality. I’m not talking about lying to gain her approval. I’m saying that if she’s looking for someone adventurous, then show her some pics of the time you went rock climbing with your buddies. Tell her stories of when you went backpacking through Europe. Find a way to communicate your ability to fill a shortcoming in her life she desperately needs.
Once you do that, she’ll be asking herself why you’d want to sleep with her.