PUA In Training

I read a post on Lifestyle Dating Blog about having an abundance mentality and thought I could expand on the subject. An abundance mentality, in terms of PUA, means you wholeheartedly believe there are plenty of women out there that deserve your time and energy.

Someone without an abundance mentality would get stuck on one girl, called one-itis in the PUA community. It’s happened to me and I’m sure it’s happened to every other guy. You meet a beautiful woman then proceed to do anything and everything possible to keep her in your life. Eventually you overload her with warm fuzzy love feelings and she leaves you. To make matters worse, you keep calling her to win her back. Look, I hate to break it to you, but the woman you’re dating, or were dating, isn’t perfect. Many women cheat, lie, steal and do much worse to the guys they’re with. Of course there are some great women out there but even a broken clock is right twice a day.

Having an abundance mentality towards women means you can break up with one and move on to the next one without missing a beat. But that’s not the only thing it can do for you. Having an abundance mentality can make approaching women much easier. How would you feel if you knew there were 20 others girls dying to meet you even after you made your first approach of the night where you crashed and burned? Or how would you feel if you were a millionaire and you lost twenty bucks?

You wouldn’t care. You’d be apathetic. You would never stress or worry about another woman again.

An indifferent attitude is also attractive. A man with options appears confident and fearless. It’s an ideal mindset to have when you go out sarging.